Sunday, May 20, 2007
♥ Conflict
I'm caught in between my sis, my father and my sister in law. What the hell is wrong with all of them? Can't they just break off from the past and get on with their own lives? Heard a shocking news just not too long ago: my father slapped my sis in law yesterday when i wasn't at home. She called the police over the slapping matter. WTF! N turns out she came to me to talk about all the family conflicts that she had with all of them and she can't handle it. My bro has no communication with her and she thought me and my bro are the most reasonable people in the house. IT'S JUST CRAP. In the first place, she has no respect for my father, no respect for my sis. She's not gonna forgive my sis for the matter over the car and so is my sis. SO WHAT IF MY DAD ACTUALLY DISAGREE WITH HER? CAN'T SHE JUST SHUT UP AND WHY CHALLENGE MY DAD TO HIT HER? It dun make sense to me in any way. It's a known fact that my dad is as stubborn as a mule and he speaks as if he were shouting. Anyway, he's getting old, can't we just let him be, talk to him nicely. Sometimes negotiation has to take place at the appropriate time and mood. N he should be able to give way to us.
It's ok with my sis in law to be open minded and straight forward. But she has to take note of the way she presents herself and probably put herself into other people's shoes. Probably she meant well for the kids and hence may be over paranoid. But i really dun see the need to really quarrel with my dad over little things such as "THIS HOUSE IS MINE! SO I HAVE THE RIGHT TO CONTROL THE FOOD, THE MONEY RESOURCE BLA BLA BLA" OR "I REALLY WISH THAT YOUR FATHER WASN'T STAYING WITH US. I THINK THE SITUATION WILL BE SO MUCH BETTER." WTF! It's such an insult to my friends whose fathers were declared bankrupt and yet they made it. I really hoped i have the ability to get a house n me and my father will shift away from this house. What's the point of living together if we are so unhappy?
She hoped that i dun stay in the room all the time cos i'll be keeping a lot of things inside me and eventually turn crazy or develop some illness, so called 心病. There's nothing else for me to do, of course i'll be in my room since my computer is in my room. Not that i dun wanna talk to her but i've got nothing to say to her. Moreover, i seldom see her at home. She wants me to confide to her whenever i've got problems but i'm now almost 20, i'm a grown up. Sometimes, our own problems should be solved by our own unless it's really not within your ability to resolve then i will seek help. However, i dun really have much problems hence i've got nothing to say. Or maybe the problem lies with me, i can't open up to her. I really really wanna move out. Family crisis. If mother were still alive, what would she do?
Weeping in pain, i dunno what i can do. Talking to her doesn't make anything better. She's tired so are we. =(
It's ok with my sis in law to be open minded and straight forward. But she has to take note of the way she presents herself and probably put herself into other people's shoes. Probably she meant well for the kids and hence may be over paranoid. But i really dun see the need to really quarrel with my dad over little things such as "THIS HOUSE IS MINE! SO I HAVE THE RIGHT TO CONTROL THE FOOD, THE MONEY RESOURCE BLA BLA BLA" OR "I REALLY WISH THAT YOUR FATHER WASN'T STAYING WITH US. I THINK THE SITUATION WILL BE SO MUCH BETTER." WTF! It's such an insult to my friends whose fathers were declared bankrupt and yet they made it. I really hoped i have the ability to get a house n me and my father will shift away from this house. What's the point of living together if we are so unhappy?
She hoped that i dun stay in the room all the time cos i'll be keeping a lot of things inside me and eventually turn crazy or develop some illness, so called 心病. There's nothing else for me to do, of course i'll be in my room since my computer is in my room. Not that i dun wanna talk to her but i've got nothing to say to her. Moreover, i seldom see her at home. She wants me to confide to her whenever i've got problems but i'm now almost 20, i'm a grown up. Sometimes, our own problems should be solved by our own unless it's really not within your ability to resolve then i will seek help. However, i dun really have much problems hence i've got nothing to say. Or maybe the problem lies with me, i can't open up to her. I really really wanna move out. Family crisis. If mother were still alive, what would she do?
Weeping in pain, i dunno what i can do. Talking to her doesn't make anything better. She's tired so are we. =(
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